SO, it's nearly that time of year again when people get their results and either head off to uni or, well, they don't.
There seems to be an endless surge of people making plans, people who seem to know what to do and where their life is taking them. Well fact is, I went to uni and four years later, I still don't have a clue.
1. Going to uni doesn't mean you'll get a great job and earn loads of money. So get that out of your head immediately. Hard work and connections will pay off, but if you're an average Joe like me, chances are you'll still have a career battle ahead of you whether you go to uni or not.
2. It's okay to turn around and, you know, not go to uni. Don't go to uni because everyone else is going, and don't do a course just for the sake of it. If you don't think uni is for you, don't be afraid of exploring other options. College, apprenticeships, training schemes... there are so many other options available.
3. If you end up going to uni, you don't really need all that stuff, honest. Um, seriously, if your room is packed and looking full and you've only just moved in I hate to break it to you but chances are you will accumulate more stuff. I swear it breeds. Just keep this in mind and don't leave packing up at the end of term til the last minute haha.
4. First impressions! Try and make an effort to at least say hi to the people living with you and/or around you. Even if you just feel like sitting in your room and crying because you're all alone and in an empty and noisy looking place.
5. It's okay to be homesick. Just because you're 18,19... or 20 something doesn't mean you can't feel homesick and all poop. Honestly, I'd say 99% of the people around you are feeling the same, or will do at some point during the first few weeks. It does get easier.
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6. Stick it out before you decide to jump ship. I mean at least try a term. Don't go dropping out after a month because you don't like it. Give the course a chance, give relationships a chance... if there is something affecting you that is really making you want to leave, can you change it first? Move out of a hellish accommodation? Talk to tutors about course issues? Etc. But if you've found out the hard way that uni isn't for you, then don't be ashamed of packing your things and heading home. Uni isn't everyone's cup of tea, and no one will think any less of you. And if they do, then they can sod off! Do what makes you happy <3
7. If you're struggling, speak up. Be it learning difficulties, like dyslexia, or just that you don't get the course material, talk to your tutors or student support network. It wont make you look stupid, or silly. That is what they are there for! You wont be the first to need help, or the last. Don't struggle in silence, you're paying a lot of money for your degree, so use the support network provided.
8. Only highlight relevant stuff and colour code! Colour coding saves a lot of trouble when it comes to essay writing, as in using one colour for 'definitely use', one for 'maybe use' and another 'possibly use', for example. Highlighting everything you read, even if it's interesting, will give you an enormous headache when you want to write your essay...
9. Labels and savvy food hiding places. If you share a kitchen you will find your food goes missing, it's a fact of uni life. It's annoying, and sometimes you feel like punching people, but don't. Instead find savvy hiding places, if the food will keep, can you keep it in your room? Label things like milk or have a group kitty and buy things that you all use together (like loo roll, milk, tea bags...) so you don't all fall out or have a million bottles of milk in the fridge.
10. There will be that one person in who doesn't clean up after themselves. I had this issue and I ended up falling out with said person, because she was just that disgusting and lazy. It wasn't fair on the rest of the house, so make sure you do your share of housework, but also don't keep picking up slack for the lazy house mate. Once they know you'll do their dishes if they leave them in the sink, they'll just walk all over you. Make cleaning rotas, or have cleaning days where you all do it together and it doesn't feel so isolating.
To all of you who are wondering off into the great university abyss, good luck! And I hope these helped in some way. :-)